First time intercourse can be a moment of nervousness to anyone. Sex education is at very low levels, in many countries. This has caused confusion, anxiety, stress and fear surrounding the first time sex. Here are a few first time intercourse tips on how to have sexual intercourse for the first time.
1. Put love ahead of sex – Sex should be the act of love rather than love being a reason for sex.
You know she will be your life partner.. all that things that you plan for your future, she will be a part of it. So, basically, she IS your life. So, take care. 🙂
3. Do not expect to perform to your 100 % at the first go. Discuss with her openly and let her know that since it will be first time for you both, there is more chance that things might not go according to plan. and would get better and better as you spend more time with each other. This talk will reduce the tension for both of you.
4. Plan for contraception: Apart from performance, you should also be conversing about your contraceptive plan, if you want to delay pregnancy. I suggest you to adopt condom method, as it is safe and hassle free. If her menstrual cycle is of 30 days, then use condom starting from 10th day of the cycle till 20th day. During the rest of the time, no need of condom or any other contraceptive method. Oral contraceptive pills come with a lot of side effects. So avoid it. If in doubt, consult your doctor to take help regarding contraception.
5. Pain during sex – Not all first time sex are painful. So do not expect it to be painful.
6. Virginity – Do not think or doubt about the virginity of your partner. It will not only cause unnecessary tension in your relationship, but also makes you lose the fun in sex. Remember – trust and belief are the golden characteristics of long & fruitful relationship.
Cheers!
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